Try this little thing to have a better life

My alarm or parents wake me up on most mornings(not all because I am usually in a state of very deep sleep I don't even hear the Alarm or I simply stop the alarm and sleep in).I get out of my cold bed in summer and go to the bathroom. I wash my face and teeth( and make wodoo). I eat breakfast every day with my family(sometimes we don't eat together because I wake earlier to study).

What do I have?
A beautiful, loving family
A big house
A working body
A  kind of smart brain
I could read and write
I eat whenever I am hungry and drink whenever I am thirsty
I was born a Muslim
I don't need anything that my dad can't get me
I am usually loved by most people I meet
I was told I always shine wherever I am (like the kind of popular kid who everyone listens to)
I was told I have a beautiful smile
I was told I am sophisticated, kind, persuasive, nice, honest, brave, cute........
I am maturer than anyone my age(which allows me to understand people even more...no I Don't find it is a bad thing ...I still get silly from time to time when I feel like it...I still get myself embarrassed though...)
I am surrounded by good people(no one is trying to  kill me -all the damage the people around me do to me is emotional)

To get to the point, I have a lot to thank Allah about.
And no matter how many problems I face or How many people are taken away from me, I can not thank Allah.

Nope, I am not writing this post to tell you how grateful I am I have the life I have.I am writing this post because I could help you improve your life.
Do you know how important it is that from time to time you feel gratitude?
To take 10 minutes and just sit down and mention all the things you are grateful for.Do It.


Well, I read that feeling grateful has A LOT of good effects. I also found out you could search all the scientific effects but I will tell you what happens to me from my experience.
If I am sad that something happened after I list all the things I am grateful for, I directly feel happy and I just feel as if my soul has been lifted.
If I am alright, I will for example not let any member of my family be sad from me. I treasure what I have before I lose it.
I get a better life.
I get more of everything I want.


That is definitely not all that I feel ....but the laptop is going to die and I need to publish the post....well just try it yourself list what you are grateful for and comment your experience.

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I am a book lover.
My posts are inspired by my life.
My blog is not only about books it's about the life of a book lover...Me.
You will probably find A LOT of things you could relate to.
After all, How different could we be?

How much do you actually think about what you say?

Hello there
How is your life going?
I hope it's great!

This post is a message to every reader.
A message that people keep sending and we keep forgetting.
I am writing this message now because of a recent situation that I faced.

Don't forget to like, comment, and follow.
I hope you enjoy this post.

Think of how easy it is to speak. Think of how most of the time you do not think about what you say until you actually do.(While this is a controversial topic- you see I think that we actually do think about what we say before saying it but we do not know because we do so subconsciously.I mean sometimes we think we didn't think about something while we actually did and well sometimes we didn't)
How much do you actually think about a good comment you said to someone(or bad for the matter)?
I know I forget A LOT (I don't even remember what I say most of the time), but well I know enough people to confirm that anyone doesn't usually remember a nice comment they said about someone.

(can you see where I am going with this?)
See how trivial you think what you say is?

On Saturday (today is Thursday)I was speaking to a teacher about extracurricular activity about my blog and that it is an option but it isn't good and a person standing next to me I know but only vaguely says " no her blog is really good". Such a small phrase don't you think?


Now bear with me for a second. I had another blog on WordPress before this one. I did it before this one and it was kind of experimental. And then the beginning of this summer I decided to do this one, which is a better-updated version- I think. But soon after the fifth or so post on this new blog, I stopped uploading. I just thought it was useless.

But a few days after that small phrase, I found myself uploading a post.

Small cause BIG effect.
I am actually very thankful to that person who probably didn't realize the effect of his small comment.
Thank you!

In addition, I actually remembered a classmate who overheard me speaking to a friend about my blog and surprisingly-
1- she didn't know it was my blog.
2-she actually knew about it!!!!!
3- she LOVED it

In conclusion, You NEVER KNOW.
You hadn't dealt with you. Do not just assume you are a bad person.
There is no certain way to know what people are thinking all the time.

Take every word for granted.
Make it an inspiration.
Do not ever allow people to put you down.


Lastly, I cannot stress enough how important it is to think of how exactly the opposite might have happened.

Take every opportunity to raise people(well try not to lie) and only then will you rise

Learn about my blog before pressing the follow button.
I am a book lover.
My posts are inspired by my life.
My blog is not only about books it's about the life of a book lover...Me.
You will probably find A LOT of things you could relate to.
After all, How different could we be?

Friendships (an optimistic post to loners)

hey there,
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Chances are you know how amazing it is to have good friends you could rely on or think they understand you or love you.

Chances are you even by now know most friendships don't get that far.

At the beginning, you will feel happiness.

But then, all that happiness and joy will turn into never-ending pain cycle.You won't know how it turned out like that. You will lose track of why that happened. you will no longer want to know what lead to that state.

You might as well feel like you never want to trust any human being again.Anything you told those friends no matter how trivial it was will be a torture forever if you thought about telling any new friend. You will just remember that well everything ends and well you just don't want everyone to know that much about you. Do you?

So what If you spend the time between school sessions alone?
It isn't that boring if you have a book in your lap?
Plus you could silently just prepare for the next session, right?

Dear people who don't have friends yet, maybe that's a blessing.
One day you will find those friends who will feel you.
Don't worry and always remember that being alone is better than being with the wrong people.TRUST ME ON THIS ONE.

Learn about my blog before pressing the follow button.
I am a book lover.
My posts are inspired by my life.
My blog is not only about books it's about the life of a book lover...Me.
You will probably find A LOT of things you could relate to.
After all, How different could we be?