Hey there,
Tip 1
Okay, so the first and most vital tip to being confident(or any other thing) is to believe you can. In other words, whatever you think you can do, want to do, or wanna stop doing like if you really want to, you will!
Tip 2
keep reminding yourself how important it is to feel confident and all the things you could do when you are confident.
- Greater self-worth: the more self-confidence you have, the more you value yourself and your capabilities, which means the more valuable you feel; this is what creates the effect of naturally holding your head up high since you have higher self-esteem and are proud of who you are
- More happiness and enjoyment: for all the reasons above, the more self-confident you are, the happier you are with yourself; as a result, the more you always enjoy life
- Freedom from self-doubt: the more self-confident you become, the freer you become of the mental torture of doubting yourself, and questioning whether you're 'really' valuable, or capable of achieving things you want to achieve
- Greater strength and capabilities: the more self-confident you are, the stronger and more powerful you feel; you also naturally grow stronger and more confident when encountering challenges, rather than feeling weakened, crippled, and defeated by them
- Freedom from fear and anxiety: the more self-confident you become, the more you know that you can accept, handle, learn, gain, and benefit from any situation, circumstance, or outcome; in this way, you naturally replace fear and anxiety with greater confidence in yourself and your abilities
- Freedom from social anxiety: the more secure you feel in your self-worth, regardless of how others see you, the less concerned you are with what others might or might not think of you in social situations
- More peace of mind and less stress: freedom from self-doubt, fear, and anxiety naturally translates into greater peace of mind and a more stress-free life
- More energy and motivation to act: the more confident you are that you can achieve things you want to achieve (like personal goals or dreams), the more motivated and energized you are to take action to achieve them
- More beneficial and enjoyable interactions with others: the happier and more confident you are, the more relaxed, comfortable, and at ease you are, and this naturally puts others at ease more around you; also, with these qualities, others tend to trust, respect, value, welcome, and cooperate with you more; the overall result is better and more enjoyable social interactions
- Better sleep & health: less fear and anxiety + less stress + more peace of mind + more happiness = you enjoying the health benefits of being more self-confident, including better quality of sleep
- Greater success: in case it's ever been a mystery to you why self-confident people are naturally more successful, now you can clearly understand why there is such a high correlation between self-confidence and success; each of the above benefits helps you achieve things you want to achieve faster and easier, which means you enjoy more success in life
Tip 3
Process
Write down what scares you or what you think makes you "dis-confident"
Try to find solutions and write them on the other side
Ask a trusted one to help you apply your solutions to your life
Note: it's not easy but definitely worth it
Write down what scares you or what you think makes you "dis-confident"
Try to find solutions and write them on the other side
Ask a trusted one to help you apply your solutions to your life
Note: it's not easy but definitely worth it
Tip 4
Stop worrying about the consequences …. there are always consequences so quite worrying
Note: overconfidence might lead to arrogance …
How to avoid being arrogant?
Just keep reminding yourself how small you are compared to the universe…. billions of people alive are you really better than ALL of them?
Stop worrying about the consequences …. there are always consequences so quite worrying
Note: overconfidence might lead to arrogance …
How to avoid being arrogant?
Just keep reminding yourself how small you are compared to the universe…. billions of people alive are you really better than ALL of them?
Tip 5
Don't overthink… it's just no use ….
Simply how many times did you overthink stuff? It never helps!
Just wastes time and makes you sweat lots for nothing and most people end up in panic attacks (which I had only once or twice in my life and it isn't pleasant! Actually I hated the experience and wished I was cooler of standing up against well…. never mind )
Don't overthink… it's just no use ….
Simply how many times did you overthink stuff? It never helps!
Just wastes time and makes you sweat lots for nothing and most people end up in panic attacks (which I had only once or twice in my life and it isn't pleasant! Actually I hated the experience and wished I was cooler of standing up against well…. never mind )
Tip 6
You are not stupid
If you keep saying am stupid that just lowers your self-esteem and self-confidence even just if you think about it!
You are not stupid
If you keep saying am stupid that just lowers your self-esteem and self-confidence even just if you think about it!
Instead, think of your positives... how smart/ beautiful/loved and think of your blessings.
Tip 7
Remember that a lot of people aren't self-confident so don't panic about it!
Remember that a lot of people aren't self-confident so don't panic about it!
Tip 8
Write a list of things you are good at or things people like about you or you like about yourself.
you might need to read this list every morning or hang it in your room.
Yeah well…. hope this helped
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